Blogging as first love?

To me blogging is like an old affair that you can never have enough of. No matter how far you go, you got to miss it and come back, if at least for a quick moment.
The reason I cheat on my current errands and return back to blogging are:

You people - This is one place where I have without doubts made more friends than enemies and trust me, some of these friends are more than families. I would not share my personal stories to any one but to many of you.

Digital diary - Do we doubt that? Ever miss a happy or sad day in your life? Just go back and dig in the archive, and feel good.

Feel good? - If ever something upsets you, just blog. Your readers will understand you and connect to your situation, make you feel better and rest be sure, it is worth the effort.

We are Parents without the kids - I admit this may not be everyone but many of us. We are designers, coders, developers just because of our blog. We designed it, nurtured it, constantly care for it and then of course, maintain it. Don't we?
Oh yes, we are parents ;-)

Networking - You never know where life would take you. I learnt this from a personal incident in my life. As I said, I am an open-blogger yet I keep pictures and other items hidden. So when I joined a job in Mysore, a girl walks to me and asks me if I was Sachi. I said yes, and she instantly introduced herself to me with her blogger name.

Boasting about it at work - Oh yes, this IS where I have had experiences of my life. I boast it to one and all. Trust me if you have a well-maintained blog, you can shout out your creativity, hobby, talent, dedication and what not from that.

Followers - You have stalkers, followers, motivations and friends for other social networks - Twitter, Facebook, Instagram, Pinterest and of course other hobbies.

Parents are cool about it - Hah! Even if you said you don't care, you do. No one objects you spending time blogging. What else do we want than a happy world? You’re a celebrity after all.

Recession - Well, bloggers are never out of business. Plus, you can work from HOME (read anywhere)

Interesting other readers - You can always turn to fellow bloggers to read and what more, you can read about whatever you want. Thank you labels!

No more wasting time - Not over on the internet!

And above all, Sanity - Who would be insane with a purpose in life? :D

And and even above that is that it's FREE :)

So what's your reason?

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Days without regrets

N. b. Think about what would you change if you could have done one thing differently in life?

When I was a kid I always set my goals higher than the safe border line. As a kid above the average ones but not the class toppers; I was given a doubtful look by my teahcers, parents, friends, family. I knew I could. Every report card said "Can do better"  and know what, I never did because I did not want to. I would leave my final examination as soon as I got sure I would pass in it. I was one of the students who wopuld sleep till 9:45 a.m. for a 10 a.m. exam. Every semester I would have low attendance but in all I did good; or better than I expected. Some may say I intentionally set my expectations low; I didn't. I just had other higher priorities.
I knew when to strike and when to not worry. I always dreamed about a job I would love. I have one. I wanted a car I could ride; I got one. I wanted an apartment of my own - never knew I would not clean it. I wanted to support every wish, every need of my own, myself - now when I can, I won't. I always enjoyed cooking - never knew time would worry me and I wouldn't eat. I did better. Did I?

But then I know I have the most amazing parents, the best of friends any one could have, people to care and love for, places to go to, resume to strengthen, wishes to fulfill and dreams to look forward to. I know I have everything. And as they say,
“The saddest summary of life contains three descriptions: could have, might have, and should have.”
I guess I would not have any regrets. I expressed myself every time I wanted to, i stood by what I believed as long as I could, I preach what I know I can teach and yes, I have managed to be happy all this while. I guess I have always tried to be positive. I never looked at my phone and said, I wish it was a better one. I was always thankful of what I have. In life always remember:
- Breathe.
- Dance, Sing, Write, Read or Travel.
- Being alone at times is a bliss. Think.
- Be thankful for what you have.
Believe in something, someone - may be a God. (Remember, God is man's greatest creation)
- Don't keep false hopes, promises or wishes to yourself.
- Spend less than you can earn. Save a bit.
- Don't stop moving. work hard.
- Have a wish list. Put every wish; stupid or not; in there.
- Enjoy the life you have. What was in past won't let you live your present and will definitely affect your future.
- Love your country. Believe in your ethics. And respect anything that is not yours.
- Be honest! (at least to yourself.)

(And the list shall continue...)

Adios!

P.S. Today, I proudly say, I always waited to see this day where I could complain about my job, hate driving my car, not clean my apartment, not pamper myself even when I can, never cook or eat what I cook and still manage to keep a smile without any regrets ;)

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Who am I with you

"I love it when you smile at the very moment you see me. With every “I love you”, I understand more of us. With every “beautiful”, I fall more in love with us. A thought of you makes me smile, recalling that you chose me over so many gives me a confidence that I cannot simply put in words. If ever I am upset, all I want is you – talking, hugging, fighting – no matter what, but I want just you wrapped around me. Whenever I get mad, you understand and I adore the fact that you don’t hang up on me even if I say nothing. I will keep every memory that you shall give, would let every song you sing echo and hold memory of every dance that we will have. The times you have pampered me, the times you hold me tight and tickle me, the times you play with me, the times I am sleepy and you don’t let me go, the times you shut me up in between an argument, the times you hold my hand with a promise to never let it go - lingers in my heart. The best is when you look through me and just smile!" :-)

P.S. This post is for the one person who sweeps me of my feet and tells me in his own way that there exists no such thing as a writer block :) 

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Father's Day

Dad,
You are my first love. The man who might have missed to say how much he loves me; but never failed to show it. I am a rare-Mom-pampered-daughter; but you were the one I could always turn to when Mom said no. I love you for saying "It's okay" when I shouted; for smiling when I was mad at you; for laughing on my jokes. When someone said "Can do better", you said "Good work!".

"One father is more than a hundred schoolmasters."

You are the only one whose hugs make me strong and when I am weak, I know the shoulder to cry on. You have always been there; no matter what - close or far. And that is the reason, I walked confidently. I knew these hands would never let me fall and even if I did, they knew how to pick me up and let me go back. Well, parents indeed are the only one who will sacrifice whatever it is to make you happy again. They are the one who make your house a dream home.

"A father is someone who is proud to see you get your first car; but secretly wishes it had no keys."

You are the one who taught me how to ride a bike and how to drive a car. I could overcome my fears because I knew that you're there and you would never ever give up on me. You are the one who taught me that problems are easy if we starting looking for their solutions and stop worrying.

"A child looks up at the stars and wonders. Great fathers put a child on his shoulders and helps them to grab a star."

And Dad, I lived the darkest days because I had your safe arms. You are a role model to your kids and many others. Oh and when someone asks me about you, I am proud to say, he is my daddy, the strongest! Each word you say to me is much more than wisdom and I hope to be your little girl always.

"A father is always making his baby into a little woman. And when she is a woman he turns her back again."

I will no more waste time worrying about the small things; because as you sau, I don't want to miss out on the best things. And Dad, everything I do, I do it for you..

P.S. They say a father is the man who has his daughter's picture in his wallet where he could have had lots of money :) And yes, (saying this without any shame) you're my Any Time Money !

P.P.S. I know no matter how wrong I am; you'll take care of it all. Please please do not ever stop pampering me ! :)

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Portland Diaries

So I had a chance to visit Portland in the month of Feb. As many of you must be aware of, the city is known for its microbreweries and strip clubs ;) Sadly, I could not visit any!
It's a nice city with green areas and a downtown good enough to call it a city. Yes, I judge the city by its downtown. The people are nice and smiling. I unfortunately could not see the best weather days which is a rare thing in Portland but if you happen to visit in one of those sunny days, do try some of the street-side cafes and live music. In this city of roses, the most beautiful thing was Mount Hood. Every road I travelled, every bridge I crossed, I could see it. Not to forget, the city has a beautiful skyline. If you're a museum lover unlike me, then Portland has Museum of Contemporary Craft, Portland Art Museum and the Oregon Museum of Science and Industry (OMSI) to offer. Pittock Mansion is a beautiful place for the home makers. One must thing is to take the Portland Underground and also the Portland Aerial Tram. If you are a fan of lush parks, Portland has few to offer - Forest Park, Jamison Square, Tanner Springs Park and Washnington Park top the list. To me visiting the Willamette River was a must. If you get to visit the city for more than just a weekend getaway, a visit to Mt. Hood is must! Some of the other nice getaway places would be Mount St. Helens, the Columbia River Gorge, Oregon Wine Country, Multnomah Falls, nearby cities like Seattle, Vancouver and Eugene.
Portland is surrounded by water all over. On the north side is Columbia River which separates this beautifully lit city from Vancouver, WA (Dear Punjabis, it's not the one in Canada) I liked how the public transport was punctual but then it is not that frequent. Also you can see a lot many walkers and bikers. Of course, the services are well connected and good priced. Not to forget, Portland is well planned in terms of addresses and locations. You can very well survive without a GPS though I would not recommend that.  Well like any other city in US, Portland has its very own Zoo too. :) I was told by the locals that the International Rose Test Gardens was a huge visiting place in June when they held the Portland Rose Festival. So if you happen to be around, visit and let me know how festive it is.
Two things that I would definitely visit Portland again for is the Reed College and Powell's City of Books. The Reed college has a nuclear reactor at display :) and well I love books. Portland is home to people of many origin. It is one of the largest cultural mix I have ever seen. So that results in best food options. For the eating and being merry places, I would recommend Doug Fir Lounge, Quan Linh, Gravy, Detour Cafe, Nicholas' Restaurant, Portland City Grill, Byways Cafe, Ristretto Roasters, Portofino Caffè Italiano, Salvador Molly's, Voodoo Doughnut, Pazzo Ristorante, Andina, McCormick and Schmick's, Huber’s, Marrakesh, Riyadh's, Baan Thai (Warning: Spicest Thai food ever had. And for the record, I am a chilli loving Indian) and did I mention that they have foods on carts too. (YUM!) Some of these places are family owned which I always adore. What else could you ask for more than a good trip, good food, great people and warm hospitality. Oh and 'Coffee People' at PDX is a must too.

Adios!

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Till death do us apart

I often wonder what it would be like to say "I do" to some one and be sure that you would be with that one till death do you apart. In this uncertain world, aren't the vows something that you have to be certain of. Something that you wish to hold on. Blessed are those who have a partner to cuddle with and talk to even when they cannot move. Love, as we humans call it, is beautiful. But it comes with a price. Well, not a literal price but yes, a few compromise, a few knock-outs, too much of understanding and a lot of patience. But then not everything is free. With this price, one gets a companion who finds you amazing no matter what. So isn't having a love like having a friend forever? If it is then why do we expect. Why do we get those butterflies with just that one person? But then that is how love is.. it ain't enough ever :) And may be that's why some of us wish to hold on till death do us apart..

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New Year thought

Some things just end up becoming a must! Like a bed-time coffee is always romantic; getting drunk on New Years' eve is the forever tradition; hoping India win in an away series is so wanted and not reading about Kolaveri or about Team Anna is so impossible :-) 

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Time to change 2011 to 2012

It's NEW YEARS time! And I am so excited. This year is just so special - in each and every way. I always think about things that I should have or should NOT have done and a list of things I could and could NOT do. I call it success when the later is longer than the 'should' list. Yes! 2011 was a success. And before 2012 embarks, I want to wish the whole world a very very Happy New Year. May the world unite in 2012, and we all be happy and merry and get to see the coming years ;)
Btw.. what are your resolutions? I am still looking for something! As suggested by a friend, I think I'll just use 2011's resolution to 2012's.

Oh and the video: Cheer up peepalzzz....

Umeed wali dhoop, Sunshine wali aasha.. Rone ki wajah kamm hai, Hasne k bahane jyada !!
Zidd hai muskurayenge, Khush rehne ka hai waada.. Umeed wali dhoop, Sunshine wali aasha !!
Tum dil se agar poochoge, woh Khush rehna hi chahe.. Jab sachhe mann se maango to khul jaati hai rahein !!
To khul k khushi lutao ye kya hai aadha aadha... Umeed wali dhoop, Sunshine wali aasha.. Umeed wali dhoop, Sunshine wali aasha.. :-))

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Thought

The story of Rapunzel teaches one thing about LOVE: 

"Climbing the highest tower is less difficult when someone at the end gives you something to hold on." :-)

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Falling reasons...

Okay people! I have been quiet inquisitive to what makes everyone fall in love. I totally believe that for different people there are different reasons. I simply wish to know yours!

Were it the looks that he/she adorn?
Or the smile that added to the persona?
Was it the depth in those eyes?
Or the feeling of holding you in that voice?
Was it the dressing sense?
Or the scent that he/she was wrapped in?
Was it the best body?
Or the overall sex appeal?
Did the care or the love hit your heart?
Or the sweet and supportive nature?
Did sense of humor, outlook towards life or that passion to succeed made a difference?
Were you inspired of how he/she is serious about career or the way he/she worked hard?
Was there some love at first sight or you were just the casual acquaintances?
What made you think that yes! here's someone with whom I want to grow old or the one who can always cheer me up?
Is it because you found the perfect company of laughing at the most insane stuff?
Or because it was with him/her only that you could think of taking the shower together?
Did saying "I love you!" countless times made you feel so deep?
Or was it something more?
Did that feeling of you're-wanted made you drool?
Or that respect that he/she gave you?
Or was it the never dying friendship between you two?


Come on! I think I should be answered. Shouldn't I?
So tell me, "What made you fall in love?"
In case you want to say that you never fell in love or it is all crap, then also you must have had some good feelings for someone? If the answer to even this is "NO!" and you're already an adult, then I wish to say just one good thing, "Get a life!"

Love is the most beautiful feeling!

And hey! if you wish to tell me but not share it with others then leave a comment and delete that. I'll be more than grateful!

~Adios~

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There is a lot about you...

There's a lot about you.
Whenever I hold your hand, I feel a sense of security that I have not felt for years. When I sit beside you, I find myself smiling for reasons that I can never explain. It's you who understands what I mean when I say, "I'm okay!". You know that my days are gloomy when I try to say that it's all sunny in here! Its you who comforts my silence and clears my confusions. I love it when I frown just because someone said, "I can't." and you stand by me knowing and saying, "You're the best!". At times when I fear saying things, it's good how you comfort me. Each time you're kind, gentle, encouraging, I understand that you really care. There is something in you that I adore, an aura, a charm or may be that tough roar! There is something in you that keeps me wondering if this is it, because they say if it is too good to be true, it definitely is! There is something in you that makes every day spent with you, like a dream come true! 
With you by my side, I do not need a mask to hide my own self. I can be ME!
It's not love...there's a lot more to it! There's a lot more about you...

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Quote

Oct 21 - Before I met you, I'd never fallen in love though I'd stepped in it a few times.

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